Patricia
My condolences to the Kaheaku family.
I'm so sorry for your loss, may your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories and joyful times you all shared together with Mary. May you also be comforted in knowing that God has promised a time when he will "swallow up death forever and wipe the tears from all faces." (Isaiah 25:8) May he show you his love through caring friends, warm memories, and moments of peace.