Roberto Valentin-Perez's Obituary
Roberto Valentin, born on January 15, 1956, in Mayagüez, Puerto Rico, entered into peaceful rest on January 27, 2026, in Honolulu, Hawaiʻi.
Roberto was raised in Jersey City, New Jersey, where he grew up alongside his loving parents, the late Benita Perez and Monserrate Valentin, and his siblings Luz M. Soto, Fernando Valentin, Noemi Valentin Perez, Evelyn Aker, and Elsie Valentin. Each of them loves and misses him deeply. New Jersey remained a defining part of his life, shaping his identity, friendships, memories, and the joyful spirit that everyone knew him for.
A humble man who walked with God, Roberto carried the spirit of the lord wherever he went. He had a rare gift for making everyone around him feel uplifted—brightening days with encouraging words, and something funny to make you laugh. He loved his family and friends wholeheartedly and was devoted to building connections rooted in kindness, joy, and compassion.
Throughout his life, Roberto was known for his warm heart, joyful nature, and unwavering kindness. He had a gift for humor and a smile that could soften any moment. He loved music a lot and enjoyed all genres, but dancing to salsa was his greatest passion. Roberto was an incredible dancer, known especially for his creativity. His dance moves were a reflection of who he was: fun-loving, expressive, and never one to take life too seriously.
Roberto treasured his family above all. He is survived by his children Stephanie Hagerman and her husband Justin, Jessica Valentin, and Enrique Valentin, who were the pride of his life. He shared a special closeness with each of them; their love, support, and presence meant everything to him.
He was also the most incredible grandfather anyone could ever ask for. Roberto adored his grandchildren—Lillianna Hagerman, Vanessa Hagerman, Sabrina Hagerman, Cassandra Macmillan, Chloe Macmillan, Caleb Valentin, and Avery Valentin—and loved each of them deeply and without limits. His legacy continues through his beloved great-grandchild, Harvin Macmillan.
Roberto was a man of deep faith. He loved serving in the church and sharing the salvation of the Lord with others. He valued his brothers and sisters in Christ and found profound joy in helping people feel God’s peace.
Extremely skilled with his hands, Roberto was a fantastic carpenter who loved his craft. He could build anything from the ground up, and whatever he created was always beautiful—a true expression of his talent and dedication.
He was also proud to be a veteran who served his country with honor. His friendships with his fellow veterans were deeply meaningful to him, bound by shared experience and mutual bravery.
In his later years, Roberto found peace and happiness in Hawaiʻi, a place he embraced wholeheartedly. He loved the people, the culture, and the liveliness of the islands, and called them home.
Above all, Roberto was devoted to his beloved wife, Luz Marina Valentin, with whom he shared a deep and enduring love.
Roberto will be remembered for the happiness he spread, the laughter he brought, the music he lived through, the faith he carried, and the love he poured into every connection. Though he is gone, his memory will continue to bring warmth, comfort, and inspiration to all who were blessed to know him.
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