Birth date: Apr 9, 1957 Death date: Jun 18, 2020
Gone too soon and will never be forgotten... Steven James Adlawan, 63, of Honolulu, Hawaii passed away on June 18, 2020. He was born on April 19, 1957 in Honolulu to James Jaime Adlawan and Clara Adlawan. Steven was a retired C Read Obituary
This is still a shocker for all of us who knew Steve. But I am reminded that it is appointed by the Lord Himself as to WHEN we return from whence, we came…. this, having always been God’s plan for the life and death of his creations.
We will all miss you Steve. Your life has made a significant impact on all those you have left behind. Your family mourns deeply for you.
The Book of Ruth tells a story very similar to what I see of your mom and your wife Remy, as they each individually try their best to navigate around the events that transpired the days before you left. Their souls are hurting and they grieve inside and out. The story goes on where eventually this shared loss leads to the creation of a bond between the two ladies. The loving relationship between a mother and her departed son’s wife serves as an inspiration of courage, humility and an infinite love of humanity.
Eventually the pair draws strength from each other. Their grieving is put aside, and they become determined to do what they need to do. In this case, there are still young children to care for…a house to keep …bills to pay and things to do, all the while encouraging each other in prayer , attitude and a love for family.
This determination in your wife Remy, coupled with your mom’s history of fighting for the Macalino family from where she comes, fuels the fire in both ladies that love will triumph. They gladly take the reins to care for the rest of the Adlawan family…children and grandchildren.
God did not leave your family helpless in your absence, Steve. God’s prints are all over the preparations made for the others to carry on where you left off. Our God had given the two ladies lifetime experiences to handle the future .
So, Rest in peace Steve, knowing … ALL IS WELL.
May our Lord bless you; may He grant you mercy and grace in His loving kindness.
(We are truly saddened by your absence Steve…our hearts are broken. We will stay close and assist as needed. We love you.)
In Christ’s Everlasting Love,
Uncle Lloyd and Auntie Ceil Golden
23 Shady Vista Road
Rolling Hills Estates, CA 90274
Hawaiian Memorial Park Mortuary 12 July 2020
Valley of the Temples
Obituary for STEVEN JAMES ADLAWAN 9 April 1957 – 18 June 2020
This is still a shocker for all of us who knew Steve. But I am reminded that it is appointed by the Lord himself as to WHEN we return from whence we came…..this, having always been God’s plan for the life and death of his creations.
We will all miss you Steve. Your life has made a significant impact on all those you have left behind. Your family mourns deeply for you.
The Book of Ruth tells a story very similar to what I see of your mom and your wife Remy, as they each individually try their best to navigate around the events that transpired the days before you left. Their souls are hurting and they grieve inside and out. They story goes on where eventually this shared loss leads to the creation of a bond between the two ladies. The relationship of a mother and her departed son’s wife serves as an inspiration to many people in the category of an “in-Law”.
Soon, the pair draws strength from each other , puts their grieving aside and determines to do what they need to do . In this case, there are still young children to care for…a house to keep …bills to pay and things to do, all the while encouraging each other in prayer , attitude and loving on each other.
I can see your wife Remy and your mom together , maintaining that love throughout the home for the rest of the Adlawan family…children and grandchildren .
God did not leave your family helpless in your absence, Steve. God’s prints are all over the preparations made for the others to carry on where you left off.
So, Rest in peace Steve, knowing all is well .
May our Lord bless you; may He grant you mercy and grace in His loving kindness.
(We are truly saddened by all this Steve…our hearts are broken. We will stay close to the family).
In Christ’s Everlasting Love,
Uncle Lloyd and Auntie Ceil Golden
23 Shady Vista Road
Rolling Hills Estates, CA 90274
