Nancy Kawakami
Submitted on behalf of Lily Gonzaga:
Good evening everyone. My name is Lily I'm here to share some of my memories with Wayne I met Wayne in 1993 at Bank of HI. I was an immigrant who just migrated in the US within 6 mos. Wayne was a terror! He was strict, very particular and kind of OCD. So imagine me an FOB & him meeting at the first time on my 1st day of work. I tried my best not to make him mad. Until the end of the day when we were balancing our cash, I dropped my bag of loose coins! OMG!!! I can hear him running all the way from the hallway yelling who it was. I never thanked GOD that I was born short! I hid under my counter until he caught me. He looked at me said "You LOLO!" when I heard that, I was so relieved as I was coming out, I was giving him my BIG SMILE! I said,” I'm not lolo, I'm lola." You see Lolo in filipino is Grandpa and Lola means Grandma. I thought he was being sweet by trying to speak filipino. Well, he gave me a look of "What the??" and just shook his head. When I got home, my aunty asked me how was my first day? I told her that my Senior Teller is a japanese guy who was kinda terror. But he was sweet because when I dropped my bag of loose coins, he called me LOLO and I think he was trying to speak filipino. My aunty gave me the same look as what Wayne did, until she said LOLO means STUPID he was calling me stupid and he wasn’t trying to speak filipino.. Well I was more focused on what LOLO means than Wayne calling me one. Ever since then, whenever he would call me LOLO I would call him LOLA until he stopped.
We both left BOH as great friend, we kept in touch. Wayne was always there when I needed a friend, for support, to listen, and for comfort. So, when I got pregnant with my 1st child and my husband was still in the Philippines. Wayne would call and check up on me if there's anything that I need or want. That's why my husband is very grateful of him. When I was ready to go back to work after staying home for more than 2 yrs, Wayne once again was there to help me out. He suggested for me to look for a STATE job to invest on my retirement. When I followed his suggestion, he was so excited! He would call and ask on the status of my application. I remember when I told him that I went for the background check, he said excitedly, "You're in! I said well, I will consider I'm in when they call and offer it to me." He said sarcastically, "well, have you been to prison? Have you been arrested lately? i said....hmmm not that I remember. Wayne has always believed in me, even when I didn’t believe in myself. He would always push me; remind me not to sell myself short.
This thanksgiving when we saw each other, we talked, & reminisce our old memories. We realized how we stood to our promise of being friends, not just forever but for life... not knowing that it will be our last day to see each other. Wayne, despite of his poker face, was truly sweet guy just like how I knew at our first meeting. He was a very understanding, supportive, caring, loving, and responsible person. He always made sure that everything, anything & everyone are well taken care of and it's in proper place. Wayne was a GENUINE person with a genuine heart. And for that I want to Thank you Wayne for accepting me. For the all years of support, for believing in me, for your care, for your unconditional love. REST NOW MY DEAR FRIEND. Until we meet AGAIN. I MISS YOU ALREADY AND AS ALWAYS...I LOVE YOU.
THANK YOU.

